Becoming Unforgettable

The Woman 12 qualities to transform society one woman at a time How can the modern-day woman manage her ever-increasing multiple identities and still live a fulfilled life? Is it possible for women to be truly happy? What limits women? How can they manage the behaviours expected of them by society and still be true to themselves, their core beliefs and identities? All over the world, the woman’s story is the same—years of being moulded by voices from traditions, cultures, religions, and various systems while having to suppress their inclinations. As a result, many women have become caught in a quandary of who to trust—self or society. This discrepancy has brought untold hardship, stress, and identity confusion in many lives. Ebun Akpoveta, a counsellor and pastor, examines society’s attitude toward women and highlights their plight behind closed doors. Becoming Unforgettable encourages women to step out of the box and reach for their personal best. It outlines 12 qualities that can take a woman from an ordinary existence to an unforgettable one. She gives voice to issues such as the following: • Martyr syndrome and codependency in women • How stereotype compromises women’s individuality • 12 qualities of an unforgettable woman • What women really want from men • Why women fake orgasm and experience low sexual drive • The male and female dysfunctional shopping list for their other half • Being a woman and a person • Identifying your fear triggers • Why women don’t need to be boys • Submission—is it love or law? • Gossip—women’s Achilles’ heel