Regret to inform

In 1968, Barbara Sonneborn received word that her husband, Jeff, had been killed in Vietnam while trying to rescue his wounded radio operator during a mortar attack. "We regret to inform youÖ" began the telegram that arrived. Twenty years later, Sonneborn, a photographer and visual artist, set out on a search for the truth about war and its legacy. The result is her documentary Regret to inform, telecast on PBS as part of the POV series. The film follows Sonneborn's journey to Khe Sahn, where Jeff was killed, and weaves together the stories of widows from both sides of the American-Vietnam war. The web site includes statements from the widows with video clips (Real Player), Letters from the heart (an online memorial), and resources (including books, web sites, videos, and organizations).