Beadle's Dime Book of Practical Etiquette for Ladies and Gentlemen (Classic Reprint)

That man is a gentleman How the heart opens to let him in, without any further commendation He may be wise, and rich, and remarked for his genius but if he be not a true gentleman, his gifts will not avail to make him a favorite and a desirable companion. That woman is a lady What matter, then, if she is not clad in silks, or is not beautiful of form or feature S he has the key which unlocks all hearts for her, for to be a lady, implies high qualities and gracious gifts of soul. Why then, are not all persons gentlemen and ladies W ecan not tell, except it be that some, and a large class of, persons look upon politeness as something effeminate, or as fit only for fops ;and therefore make boors of themselves, because it is so manly to be coarse and to do just as one pleases. Some.are actually ignorant of what constitutes true politeness, and err not from willfulness, but from want of knowledge. But such persons are readily forgivable, for, if their disposition is to be polite, they will find the way very easy into the confidence of all, and will learn, ere long, what custom and usage has sanctioned as fit and proper regulations for the intercourse of men with men, women with women, and all with one another. It is to such persons as those last-named, that we especiilly address this little manual. To learn the usages of society is easy, if one only will learn for, after all, these usages are not complicated and burdensome, but grounded upon simplicity itself the great law which underlies all, is the blessed Golden Eule: Do unto others as ye would ihnt they should do unto youy We propose to give such suggestions, in the various departments of social experience, as will advice the reader of the usages sanctioned by eminent authority, and of the deportment proper and acceptable to well-bred persons and flatter ourselves that, if our advise is followed, thi