Tell Me, Grandmother

Tell Me, Grandmother

by Virginia J. Sutter

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"Tell Me, Grandmother is both the biography of Goes-in-Lodge, a traditional Arapaho woman of the nineteenth century, and the autobiography of her descendant, Virginia Sutter, a modern Arapaho woman with a Ph. D. in public administration. Sutter weaves her own story with that of Goes-in-Lodge - who, in addition to being Sutter's great-grandmother, was first wife of Sharpnose, the last chief of the Nothern Arapaho nation." "Writing in a question-and-answer format between twentieth-century granddaughter and matriarchal ancestor, Sutter discusses four generations of home life, including details about child rearing, education, courtship, marriage, birthing, and burial. Sutter's portrait of Goes-in-Lodge is based on tribal history and interviews with tribal members. Goes-in-Lodge speaks of social and ceremonial gatherings, the Sun Dance, the sweat lodges, and the changes that took place on the Great Plains throughout her lifetime. Sutter details her own life as a child born in a tepee to a white mother and Indian father and the discrimination and injustice she faced struggling to make her way in an increasingly Euro-American world."--Jacket.

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    How does the framing device of a question-and-answer dialogue between Virginia Sutter and her great-grandmother, Goes-in-Lodge, shape your understanding of time, lineage, and ancestral connection throughout the book?

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    In what ways does Goes-in-Lodge’s life as the wife of the last chief of the Northern Arapaho nation illuminate the immense cultural shifts and pressures faced by Indigenous peoples during the nineteenth century on the Great Plains?

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    Virginia Sutter details the complexities of growing up with a white mother and an Indian father, navigating discrimination in a Euro-American world while holding a Ph.D. in public administration. How does she balance these two distinct cultural spheres in her search for identity?

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